I just finished listening to the 2nd audio lesson on the Pronunciation series, and I'm having a hard time with aspirating vs. nonaspirating. I can hear the difference in the stressed consonants and even make something close to a stressed sound; however, I can barely hear any difference for the aspirating vs. nonaspirating and can't seem to voice it. I've tried the trick with the paper, and it seems I can never make the paper move. I am a native English speaker and when I tried making these sounds in English, I couldn't make the paper move even though I have the paper as close to my mouth as possible. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Is it unusual for an English speaker to have a problem making aspirated sounds? I would think that surely I use aspirated sounds in English all the time. I tried holding the paper with one hand also just in case I was holding it too tightly, so I'm not sure what the problem is.
Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer!